For the child in the manger?
Speaking is Overrated
This blog is created by a group of autistic, non-verbal, friends who point to a letter board or type to "talk". We share our thoughts, ideas, dreams, and talents here. Please read our mission statement and posts to see why speaking is overrated.
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"This blog exists to amplify the often unheard voices of its non-speaking authors, both as individuals and autistics....
Wednesday, December 17, 2025
Singing by Pablo Hernandez
For the child in the manger?
Wednesday, December 3, 2025
Spilling The Tea
Dear World - Dear Society,
I’m not interested in your games.
I sit and I love my life, and every day is the same.
I don’t pay attention to all you have to say.
I read, I walk, I drink my tea,
And that is my own rebellious way.
I don’t care to hear opinions and all the banter is insane.
I paint, I hear music, I drink more tea,
And that is my own rebellious way.
I’m sitting and I’m dreaming of a world without chaos and strife.
I’m giggling because this is my world, my rebellious way, my life.
By: Miller Laffoon
November 18, 2025
Sunday, November 16, 2025
The Mornings Bring Pale Yellow by Aulton Grubbs
The morning brings pale yellow light into my room
Later and later each day
It’s like a slow motion film
It’s quiet and has soft edges
It’s a little fuzzy and feels hazy but so comfortable
I can sleep a minute more
Each day. When I dream I never wake
I open my eyes and I can tell it is fall
Lyla has learned the Fate of Ophelia and is singing it
It’s a beautiful lesson for a young woman
Elodie is still steadily breathing a calming feeling
For her, and it gathers air into my lungs
I notice a new light in the hall
The front door is open, caroling with the patterns
Of a changing season and a cool breeze
These sneaking wisps of sound
Make a hymn. The girls hustle around, plant kisses
On my forehead and it’s quiet again
Mom chats with me while I get ready
She reminds me of the date, our schedule, and reads
The weather. Last week we had a big
Ferociously glorious storm, but each day since,
Mom laments No rain today
Dad, though, rushes in and says loudly
With relief, Aulton it is raining, come outside
I hurry, there is one tiny cloud, a soft shiny one
Right above my house. It spills over my mind,
Mists over my heart, and sprinkles
My soul with a miracle. It only lasted a few minutes
But God made me my own cloud today
And I will never forget this goodness that
Is kindness in the form of pure water
Monday, November 10, 2025
Mind Over Emotion by Joshua Greiner
I’m delighted mom helps me change my thinking
I need help remembering life
Is hard, however it is human instinct
To overthink my lack
Of control. Everyone loses control sometimes
My instinct is to go back
To childhood how I
Was bullied
God’s quiet help
Overcame his voice
Higher than the bullies
More numinous than human children
Emotions take me back
To that playground long ago
I limit my eating living in the painful past
When I’m dysregulated I hear their ridicule
Equal to hearing my own judgment
I honestly listen longer to them
Than to god. I need to make my mind
Nicer to me. Mind controls emotion.
I need to listen to god.
No man is higher than god.
Sunday, September 28, 2025
Brynn Forstner
What I Have Noticed
A common misconception about autistics is that because of our apraxia we are non-thinking and also incapable of learning. While this subject is near and dear to my heart, I would like to bring another issue to people's attention. The condition is Chronic Lyricosis and it affects thousands, if not millions of people worldwide with no cure in sight. Chronic Lyricosis is a person's inability to identify and correctly sing lyrics to well known songs. I want to stress that these people are mentally intact and need our patience and we must remember to be respectful.
My own sister has been heard belting out "Now bring us the friggin' pudding" instead of figgy pudding throughout her childhood when singing "We Wish You a Merry Christmas". Sadly she is not the only one affected. Our neighbor can be heard singing ABBA's "Dancing Queen" as "young and sweet like a tangerine". My brother thought "Sweet dreams were made of cheese" for years. It's such a shame when I hear "Living On A Prayer" changed to "living on a prairie" by my father.
Devastating as this disorder can be, we must remain kind and support these poor souls. Love, understanding, and acceptance are what we all need in the world. So when you hear someone singing Bob Dylan "These ants are my friends, they're blowing in the wind", remember to be kind. They don't have the same lyrical discernment that you and I have.
Wednesday, September 3, 2025
Sonnet by Nadia Sohn Fink
Hats in a thinking stance ready to shape the head
Proof of the mind’s wearer
Letting the outside self be read
Keeps fault with the message bearer
Farthest from title the given name
Self that no pity sows
Was maker of one semblance same
Quiet title no one knows
Poor hat! Detail telling one mark
The startled start of the round sewn
Sign to make the yellow lark
Sing the lost wound gown
With one set sign the wearer torn
Takes the message never born
Monday, August 25, 2025
Thomas Callahan